First date: Oct. 25, 2000
Married: Aug. 4th, 2007
16 years is a long time to be with the same person day after day after day. Once we started dating we were together almost every day, obviously, he was obsessed with me ;) We had many ups and downs pretty much from the beginning, we were young, clueless {mainly me}, and were still figuring out who we were and what we wanted from life.
We fight, we bicker, we complain about each other, and we still love each other. Sometimes he annoys the shit out of me, sometimes I complain about it on my blog, yet we still love each other. When I annoy him he complains about it to my Mom, so #sideeye
We've become adults together, we know each other better than anyone else. I can't look him in the face and say 'You don't know my life' because he always does, it's quite annoying most days. I can't bullshit him, he knows my motives before I do half the time. Except that time I got a 'henna' tattoo and he believed me for like a year.
We allow each other to be ourselves. We can shit talk with the best of them and still give a sly wink and kiss. It's a good place to be in a relationship, to still have personal growth and be comfortable in your marriage. I think the fact that we work on ourselves separately helps us get along together. I'm actually really looking forward to the next 16 years babe!
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